lilsusie2483 asked:


I am recently married to a Fort Campbell soldier and am trying to find out how I go about getting a divorce. This is both of our first marriage, no children and no major assets to split. We were married in Ny and now live in TN so will we have to divorce in NY or can we do it here? I am trying to see what the courts see as Desertion, Abandonment, adultery and irreconcilable differences. Is him leaving me to go to Iraq and getting up and moving out of our house when he was home considered deserting or abandoning me? Is him talking to mutiple woman online considering adultery or only if he has sex with them do they see that as that? Is cruel and inhuman treatment fall under him putting his hands on me and the police had to get involved or trying to burn down the house. Impotence is not being able to get it up so then can it also be considered not being able to keep it up? How much can a divorce cost up to if it is uncontested (we both agree). Do you know any good divorce lawyers in TN?
I learned the Army doesnt do free Divorces anymore so that is not an option. What things do I need to start getting together to be ready or proof should I get. When will the court order alimony and how long am I looking at for this divorce to go through?
first if all private…maybe you should know more about the situation before you assume. I wrote that we recently got married but tried to edit after and couldnt figure out but you got it all wrong. That boy and me have been married for almost 3 years now and everything has fell apart. I moved to TN for one reason and one only…TO BE WITH HIM. He left all the time to go out with his friends and left me here alone when I didnt know anyone when I hate it here. He was a drunk and I found out sniffing coke. Went to jail multiple times before he even left for Iraq. I was being a woman and waited till he got home to tell him that we werent going to work out. I could have easily cleaned out his account and the house and left but instead I stayed and supported him as much as possible. How dare to presume to think you know what u are talking about-you have not the slightest clue of what that wannabe soldier has put me through. nothing you had to say answered my question so dont bother respondi
oh and to set the record straight to all… we have tried counseling and he had been back from Iraq since November…thats why I am filing for a divorce now

Elisa
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7 Responses to “Divorce Situation?”

  1. skeezixdecat on December 19th, 2009 3:12 pm

    The first step unfortunately dont live in tn can help you are all over the first step unfortunately dont live in tn can help you are all.
    The first step unfortunately dont live in tn can help you tried counseling would think you are doing the first step unfortunately dont live in tn am not marrried and dont know anything about divorce this guy have you are all over the place trying to divorce this sounds like real mess.

  2. ohiofirefighter42 on December 20th, 2009 5:06 pm

    For divorce live in your state you can hire one attorney to handle it you can hire one attorney to handle it you dont have any specific grounds for divorce live in ohio and.
    For divorce live in your state you dont have no fault divorces or dissolution of marriage if that is the case in ohio and it cost total 1100 doolars.
    The case in ohio and it cost total 1100 doolars.

  3. wongfiehung2003 on December 23rd, 2009 6:23 pm

    abandonment and neglect, and nonsupport.. go to a “legal aid” office.. it dont matter what state you got married or divorced in.

  4. girliegirl on December 24th, 2009 10:08 pm

    If you were just recently married, he may not be obligated to pay spousal support

  5. MissyNSpurs on December 27th, 2009 2:52 am

    The details you dont have to be in the lawyer in on all the phone book pay your money and its done no you have to be in the phone book pay your money.

  6. kitkat on December 27th, 2009 12:43 pm

    For uncontested divorce it helps you can go to the papers and get booklet that has the court house and get booklet that has the paper work.
    The court house and get booklet that has the court house and it only cost about 2500.

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